Monday, July 30, 2018

The Missing Kennedy: Rosemary Kennedy and the Secret Bonds of Four Women Paperback – September 1, 2016 by Elizabeth Koehler-Pentacoff (Bancroft Press)



The Kennedy family is a mystery to me. I was born in 64. To read this amazed me that one man had so much power over his family. Reading about her history it sounds like she was more autistic than anything else. The fact that Joe Kennedy did a lobotomy without his wife's agreement is beyond belief to me. Rosemary sounds like she could have been an amazing woman if she was born into a different family. The circumstances surrounding her birth is probably part of the reason she was the way she was. Sister Paulus was a saint and was clearly placed on this earth to take care of Rosemary. I am pleased the Kennedy family bought her back into the fold once they found out where she was. Her living legacy will always be the Special Olympics. Her legacy will outlive her brothers as her life will continue to touch people even after her death. The fact that Joe Kennedy had to spend 20 years like his daughter is justice for what he did. What goes around comes around. He deserved everything that happened to him for his treatment of his daughter and his belief he is above others.

Rosemary Kennedy, younger sister of President John F. Kennedy, was lobotomized in 1941 at age 23. In 1959, she was put out of public view at a remote facility in rural Wisconsin, where, for more than twenty years, she remained unvisited by family and non-family alike, until 1962.

Elizabeth Koehler-Pentacoff (Liz) and her parents were likely the first non-Kennedy family members to visit Rosemary following her lobotomy. Liz was niece to Rosemary’s caretaker, Sister Paulus, a Catholic nun at St. Colleta, and she visited Rosemary on a regular basis for the next thirty-four years. Through their friendship, Liz discovered the person many had forgotten or never known.

In 2015, ten years after Rosemary’s death, Liz came forward with a fascinating book about the hidden daughter of America’s royal Kennedy family. “The Missing Kennedy: Rosemary Kennedy and the Secret Bonds of Four Women” is truly unique. It is an eyewitness account of Rosemary’s post-lobotomy years, the first published by a non-family member, and it’s augmented by nearly 100 never-before-seen pictures of Rosemary after she was lobotomized.

Liz can shed considerable light on so many questions, the four biggest being:

Why did no one visit Rosemary for more than two decades?
What quality of life did Rosemary lead after her lobotomy?
What should have been the correct diagnosis of Rosemary’s pre-lobotomy condition?
And in what ways did immense good come from Rosemary’s tragic life?

This touching story of the intersection of two families will leave you with a unique portrait of the missing, but not forgotten, Kennedy.

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